It’s not hard if you’re attracted to someone to want to get closer to them. Maybe take a tip by mouth, or just make small talk. My favorite way of getting closer, is a couch or lap dance. They are so much more personal than dancing for someone on stage.  Sometimes I’ll do a really hot dance for them. Then other times we’ll just sit and talk. It’s basically what ever the customer wants, as long as it’s legal. That’s what my jobs all about, pleasing the customer. I know that when he leaves, and he has a smile on his face, I’ve done my job right.